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For Loved Ones

The effects of sexual violence extend far beyond the primary survivor. Friends, family members, and loved ones can be profoundly affected when someone who they care about experiences sexual assault or abuse. 

It is important to recognize and address your own reactions to the assault or abuse of a loved one so that you can provide support rather than possibly traumatizing them further. How you react may depend on factors including the nature of the assault, the age of the survivor, and your relationship to them.

You may experience some or all of these feelings:

  • Anger (sometimes towards the victim as well as the perpetrator)
  • Sleep disturbances
  • Guilt or shame
  • Fearfulness
  • Denial
  • Frustration
  • Depression

The most important thing that you can do for a survivor is to believe them and remind them that they are not to blame for what happened to them. From there, take your cues on how to help from them. Ask the survivor what they would like you to do to be supportive. Helping survivors regain their sense of control is important; give them time to decide how they want to proceed legally or otherwise.

There is support available for you, too. SARA's services are available to friends and family members, even if the victim/survivor does not want services. Be patient with your loved one and yourself as you both heal.


Upcoming Events

Festival of the Book - The Fact of a Body
Mar 23 2018 - Mar 23 2018
10:00AM - 11:30AM
Connections Group
Mar 25 2018 - Mar 25 2018
03:00PM - 04:30PM
Finding your Voice Writing Group
Mar 26 2018 - Mar 26 2018
06:30PM - 07:45PM
Connections Group
Mar 27 2018 - Mar 27 2018
04:30PM - 06:00PM
Adult Women's DBT Training Group
Mar 28 2018 - Mar 28 2018
06:30PM - 08:30PM

About SARA

The mission of the Sexual Assault Resource Agency (SARA) is to eliminate sexual violence and its impact by providing education, advocacy and support to men, women and children. Our vision is a community free from sexual violence.

Communities Served

We are located in Charlottesville, Virginia and serve:

  • City of Charlottesville
  • Albemarle County
  • Louisa County
  • Nelson County
  • Fluvanna County
  • Greene County

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 Charlottesville, Virginia

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