The effects of sexual violence extend far beyond the primary survivor. Friends, family members, and loved ones can be profoundly affected when someone who they care about experiences sexual assault or abuse.
It is important to recognize and address your own reactions to the assault or abuse of a loved one so that you can provide support rather than possibly traumatizing them further. How you react may depend on factors including the nature of the assault, the age of the survivor, and your relationship to them.
You may experience some or all of these feelings:
The most important thing that you can do for a survivor is to believe them and remind them that they are not to blame for what happened to them. From there, take your cues on how to help from them. Ask the survivor what they would like you to do to be supportive. Helping survivors regain their sense of control is important; give them time to decide how they want to proceed legally or otherwise.
There is support available for you, too. SARA's services are available to friends and family members, even if the victim/survivor does not want services. Be patient with your loved one and yourself as you both heal.
Greene IAP Jan 25 2021 - Jan 25 2021 10:00AM - 12:30PM |
Fluvanna IAC Meeting Feb 04 2021 - Feb 04 2021 09:30AM - 11:00AM |
Louisa IAC Feb 11 2021 - Feb 11 2021 09:30AM - 11:00AM |
Nelson IAC Feb 15 2021 - Feb 15 2021 02:00PM - 03:30PM |
SART Meeting Feb 18 2021 - Feb 18 2021 12:00PM - 02:30PM |
The mission of the Sexual Assault Resource Agency (SARA) is to eliminate sexual violence and its impact by providing education, advocacy and support to men, women and children. Our vision is a community free from sexual violence.
We are located in Charlottesville, Virginia and serve:
Charlottesville, Virginia
24-Hour Hotline: 434-977-7273
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